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As the highly anticipated day of love draws closer, you shouldn’t find yourself regretting—yet again—agreeing to a long-distance relationship. Love transcends distance, and being physically apart has never been a determining factor for a successful relationship.
In fact, one essential key to the growth and longevity of any long-distance relationship, whether mutual or romantic, is communication. If both partners are willing to invest time in communication, the relationship is far less likely to fizzle out.
Many people avoid long-distance relationships due to the unique challenges they present—such as the absence of physical contact, limited communication, and trust issues.
For some, restricted communication seems to be the major issue, as they believe there aren’t many activities you can do over a phone call, such as going on dates, watching a movie, or visiting a park together.
However, while it’s true that long-distance relationships don’t offer the same level of accessibility as in-person ones, they aren’t as restrictive as many assume. There are plenty of ways to stay connected—if both partners are willing to make the effort.
This article explores 12 virtual activities you can enjoy with your long-distance friend or partner.
1. Order Takeout
This might seem like something exclusive to in-person relationships—where your partner eagerly waits at the door—but it works virtually too. After all, it takes a few minutes to deliver food to a specific location.
If possible, add a short sticky note to the food package, and call your partner at the exact moment they receive the delivery. Watching their face light up at the sight of their favorite meal or snack makes the gesture even more special.
2. Virtual Meet-the-Family
This doesn’t mean you need to gather your entire family on a video call (unless you want to), but you can introduce your partner to members of your immediate family or close friends.
A great way to feel involved in someone’s life is by getting to know the people they love and hang around with. That way, your partner won’t feel out of place or have to constantly ask, “Who’s that?” every time a new name comes up.
Meeting your close circle helps build trust and eliminates unnecessary insecurities. So, schedule a virtual hangout with your partner and a close friend, colleague, sibling, or even a trusted neighbor.
3. Virtual Coffee Date
Virtual dates are becoming increasingly popular, especially in quiet coffee shops. With your phone or device set at the right angle, you can share stories about your day while enjoying a good cup of coffee.
To make it more engaging, you can try each other’s favorite coffee flavors and compare notes.
4. Gift Matching Jewelry
This might seem a bit cliché, but nothing keeps someone in your thoughts more than wearing a piece of jewelry that reminds you of them.
Matching jewelry doesn’t have to be flashy or overly romantic—it can be as simple as a pendant necklace or a bracelet engraved with your initials. It’s a subtle yet meaningful way to carry a part of each other wherever you go.
5. Start a Book Club
If you’re part of a book club, invite your partner to join—if they accept virtual members. Alternatively, start your own private book club with just the two of you. Choose a book you’ve both always wanted to read, set a start and finish date, and schedule weekly or bi-weekly calls to discuss it.
This not only gives your conversations more depth but also helps you learn more about each other’s perspectives. To add an element of fun, switch genres or challenge each other to read something outside your usual preferences.
6. Fitness Partners
If both of you enjoy working out, why not become virtual gym buddies? You can go jogging together while on a call, share fitness goals for the week or month, and even swap diet plans.
Set up your phone at the right angle and work out together at home or the gym. To make it more exciting, challenge each other to fitness goals or become accountability partners. This way, you’re strengthening both your relationship and your health.
7. Exchange Perfumes
Some people have a deep attachment to scents. This doesn’t mean you have to start smelling exactly like each other, but consider sending your partner a bottle of your favorite perfume or deodorant.
It might seem like a small gesture, but for those who love scents, it’s a sentimental way to feel closer, even from miles away.
8. Share Locations
This depends on the level of trust and maturity in your relationship. If you’re comfortable with it, consider sharing your location with your partner via Google Maps.
Not only is this a safety measure, but it’s also a way to feel more connected, knowing where your significant other is throughout the day.r.
9. Share Subscriptions
This one depends on the strength of your relationship. If you both use similar streaming services or apps, consider sharing subscriptions and playfully debating who will cover the next month’s bill. It’s a fun way to stay connected while enjoying entertainment together.
10. Take a Trip Down Memory Lane
Most people don’t like to share, but as I mentioned earlier, relationships—especially long-distance ones—thrive on communication. So, share stories from your past with your partner.
These don’t have to be serious or deeply emotional. Start with lighthearted topics like funny childhood pictures, high school prom stories, the most embarrassing moment in school, or even revisiting old playlists. Don’t shy away from the cringy details—they help build intimacy and strengthen your bond.
11. Wear Matching Outfits
Who says you can’t coordinate outfits just because you’re miles apart? Pick a day—maybe every Friday—to wear the same color or type of outfit. Even though you might not be able to take pictures together, knowing you’re both dressed similarly creates a sweet, unspoken connection throughout the day.
12. Play 20 Questions
This is one of the easiest and most effective ways to learn more about your partner. If you need inspiration, there are plenty of question lists available online to keep the game fresh and engaging.
Finally,
You may not be able to try all these activities, but incorporating even a few can help bridge the gap in a long-distance relationship. The key is to be intentional, stay connected, and always find creative ways to nurture your bond.
Love isn’t defined by physical presence—it thrives on emotional connection and meaningful gestures.
