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Although romantic movies are cozy and beautiful, they can also be a bit unreal and too much. In reality, no one bursts into a perfectly choreographed dance in the middle of the street to win your love.
And let’s be honest, no woman running late is going to pause and stare into a man’s eyes after he accidentally knocks her down and scatters her books. Definitely not in this part of the world, and certainly not when books have now become too expensive to be dropping.
In this article, we’ll dive into the things movies conveniently forget to include, the moments they exaggerate, and the downright unrealistic scenes that make for great entertainment but don’t quite hold up in real life.
The Instant Connection
Using the popular phrase “love at first sight,” movies make it seem like a magical moment—slow motion kicks in, the background blurs, and suddenly, it’s just the two of them in the world. A bell dings in their heart (or head), and just like that, they know—this is it.
While I don’t completely dismiss the idea of falling for someone quickly, I believe it’s often more about falling for the moment rather than the person at the moment. Because let’s be real—circumstances create the magic.
In real life, even if you meet someone in the rain on a Monday and share an amazing conversation, that same person could already be in a happy relationship or, worse, be a walking disaster.
At the end of the day, love is a journey, not the destination. Sparks and butterflies are great, but true connection comes from getting to know someone over time, not from a single moment of movie-style magic.
The Perfect Match
A popular Afrobeats singer, Adekunle Gold, once sang the lyrics, “There’s a man for every woman, a woman for every man.” Notice how he didn’t include the word perfect? That’s because perfection has nothing to do with love. Love is about two beautifully imperfect people coming together and making their imperfections something even more beautiful.
Yet, many people spend so much time searching for a partner who ticks every single box that they miss out on giving someone else a real chance. They get caught up in the idea of an ideal person, forgetting that real love isn’t about finding perfection—it’s about finding someone worth growing with.
Airport/BusChase & Grand Gestures
The airport chase and grand gestures, those classic romantic movie moments where time magically slows down, and somehow, they always manage to catch up, even after dramatically hesitating for a few seconds. Is traffic a joke to you?
Sure, these moments are exciting, passionate, and intense, but they definitely won’t be consistent. Love isn’t about one big, show-stopping act; it’s about the everyday effort, the long-term understanding, and the mutual commitment that makes a relationship thrive.
While renting out an amusement park for someone (no offense to K-drama fans) is undoubtedly grand, true love is found in the small things—after all, “good things come in small packages.”
Sometimes, the most meaningful moments are the simple, thoughtful actions such as making time for each other, showing up when it matters, and just being there. Because at the end of the day, it’s not about cinematic perfection; it’s about genuine connection that lasts beyond the final scene.
Happily Ever After? Not Quite the End
Spoiler Alert: This Is Just the Beginning
Sure, it’s the perfect way to end a movie—with a passionate kiss, a dramatic embrace, and the words “This is just the beginning.” But in real life, this is where the real story starts—the beginning of arguments, misunderstandings, big hugs, warm conversations, and everything in between.
Love isn’t just about the grand finale; it’s about the day-to-day journey. It will test patience, commitment, and effort, revealing how much two people are truly willing to grow together. Because in this part of the universe, love isn’t just a perfectly scripted ending—it’s a beautifully unscripted adventure.
Final Scene: Love Beyond the Big Screen
In conclusion, Rom-coms aren’t the enemy; in fact, they can be heartwarming, fun, and even inspiring. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to recreate those dreamy moments; after all, we all have a romantic bone in us. Who wouldn’t want a surprise date under fairy lights or a spontaneous dance in the rain? just prepare for the cold later
But here’s the thing: real love doesn’t have to follow a script. It’s okay if your story doesn’t have a cinematic proposal or a dramatic reunion at an airport. Love is unique, and so is your journey.
At the end of the day, you are the director of your own love story, so make it yours. Whether it’s filled with big gestures or simple, everyday moments, what truly matters is that it’s real, fulfilling, and perfectly imperfect, just like love itself.
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