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Kissing your child on the lips is a controversial topic, with strong opinions on both sides. Some people believe it is a natural and loving way to show affection, while others believe it is inappropriate and can send mixed messages to children.
In this article, we’ll weigh the benefits and potential risks of kissing your child on the lips, with expert insights from a registered nurse-midwife, Jennifer Akpata.
Pros of kissing children on the lips
Many parents believe that kissing their children on the lips strengthens the parent-child bond. This is because physical affection enhances the emotional connection between parents and children. 
A loving kiss can reassure children of their parents’ affection and provide a sense of security. But while intimacy with your child is important, it is also essential to prioritize his or her health and choose an intimacy method with less risk involved.
Cons of kissing children on the lips
Jennifer pointed out that “children have a weak immune system, which makes them vulnerable to infections.”
She noted that exposing them to any kind of virus and bacteria, whether through kissing or other activities, puts their lives at risk.
Likewise, dentists advise against kissing children on the lips because of bacteria like streptococcus mutans, which are contained in the saliva and affect the dental development of children.
Additionally, children may not understand the difference between a kiss on the lips and a romantic kiss, which can send mixed messages about what is appropriate and inappropriate physical contact.
Alternative ways to show affection to children
Instead of kissing your child on the lips, Jennifer advises that you “choose alternative means of showing them affection.”
This includes hugging or kissing them on the cheek or forehead, telling them how much you love them, spending time with them, and doing things they enjoy.
It also includes playing with them, reading to them, cuddling with them, giving them a back rub or massage, or offering them words of encouragement and praise.
The most important thing is to ensure that your child feels loved and secure, regardless of the chosen form of affection.
Conclusion on kissing children on the lips
The decision about whether to kiss your child on the lips is a personal one. No one can dictate how you should express love to your child.
However, as Jennifer Akpata advises, “physical affection should always be given in a way that guarantees your children’s safety and makes them feel loved.”
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